Other than brief interviews she gave last summer, she had not shared the most haunting details of the death of her husband, who drowned at age 59 in Aruba last summer while attempting to save her from a similar fate. It had been all she could do to return the body home and to organize the funeral 10 days after his death so his family and friends could say their goodbyes. But she could not find the strength to read the cards and letters that poured into the family home. Nor could she reach out to express her gratitude, with one major exception. “I hadn’t talked about it because it was so hard,” she said. “But I had decided that I wanted — I needed to — find a way to say thank you.”
Dan Roundfield Rumors
About a month before their trip, Dan came home from work and told Bernie he had read something upsetting on the Internet. It was about a couple that had been vacationing in the Caribbean with two daughters. The wife had gotten into trouble in the water. The husband rushed in but could not save her. “I said, ‘How awful,’ never thinking for a minute that that could happen to us,” Bernie said.
She returned to where Bernie sat and waited with her. “Here I am, a random stranger, talking to her and holding her hand, as this terrible realization is setting in that her husband is probably lost,” Brandt said. A year later, she said she was still dealing with the psychological fallout of her role that day. After a short while, the police called in a search team. It took 90 minutes for one of the divers — a teenage boy — to find Dan’s body, one leg pinned under rocks, miraculously held there from going out to sea.
It’s important to note that this New York Times feature isn’t about famous people who died this year. It’s regular people, with photos and remembrances submitted by their friends and family. And there, barely noticeable between a “devoted wife and mother” and an Egyptian immigrant doctor, is Dan Roundfield, the former NBA player who drowned in August trying to rescue his wife from rough seas. The brief note accompanying the photo was written by Dominique Wilkins, who played with Roundfield on the Hawks for two seasons. This wasn’t commissioned by the Times—it was just Wilkins reaching out when he saw an opportunity to publicly honor his friend and teammate.
Dan Roundfield, a three-time N.B.A. All-Star in the early 1980s, drowned off the southern tip of Aruba after he and his wife, Bernie, were caught in rough surf while swimming, the police and a family member said. Roundfield, 59, got his wife safely to some rocks, but he was swept away in the current, said John Larmonie, a police spokesman. Search teams found his body about 90 minutes later trapped by rocks underwater.
Former NBA All-Star Dan Roundfield has drowned off the Caribbean island of Aruba, police and a member of the athlete’s family said Tuesday. Roundfield and his wife were swimming off the southern tip of the island on Monday when they went beyond a protected reef area and got caught in rough water, said John Larmonie, a police spokesman for the police on the southern Caribbean island.